Marriage Do's and Don't

Don’t:

Lose faith in God

Give up on romance

Forget everyday is a gift of life

Be a Procrastinator

Hold grudges against your spouse

Be so judgmental

Wait for your spouse to read your mind

Withhold sex as a punishment

Undermine your spouse in front of your children

Assume anything

Lose your sense of humor

Fake orgasms

Become a Nagger

Treat your spouse like a child

Be a Workaholic

Forget your Anniversary

Put your family off until another day

Take your spouse for granted

Leave all the chores to your spouse, help out.

Rush through lovemaking

Try to change your spouse

Wait for your spouse to read your mind

Allow family/friends to have control in your marriage

Have high expectations with little to no compromise

Try to be like other couples

Forget about the needy, give to charity

Make big financial decisions without your spouse

Worry over what other people think of your marriage

Make the same mistakes

Forget about God

Make war, make love

Be insensitive to your spouse’s needs

Negotiate your marriage like a business proposal

Forget time waits on nobody

Become lazy with life

Be Untruthful

Be afraid to stand for what is right

Spend your life running after material things

Forget life is what you make it

Ignore your needs

 Do:

Have faith in God

Make time everyday for romance

Say, “I love you” everyday

Stay fit to be healthy

Spend more time on foreplay

Listen to your spouse

Encourage your spouse in a positive way

Give to Charity

Cook Together

Be Positive

Stay true to your marriage

Go over Family Budget together

Anticipate your spouse

Understand your differences

Plan ahead for romantic moments

Pay attention to your spouse’s body language

Communicate in an effective manner

Learn from your mistakes

Run after happiness, not money

Enjoy a sunset together

Show your spouse affection in front of your children

Be patient and understanding of differences

Enjoy the sunrise together

Make love as often as possible

Hug your spouse before leaving for work

Write a love letter to your spouse

Take time to appreciate life

Make time for yourself

Hold her chair for her at the table

In public, wink at your spouse

Stay committed to your vows

Make love in unusual places

Compromise, without compromising yourself

Talk about what each of you considers erotic and sexy

Make time everyday for quality time with kids

Remember your wedding anniversary

Validate your spouse

Put your family before your job

Take family vacations

Express your love

Be the Cheerleader in your spouse’s life

Flirt with your spouse